Friday, February 26, 2010

Meet William...


This is the Amharic name of our new son. Dagem William Coffman. Dagem is his given name (it is pronounced dag-M, emphasis on the letter M). William's nannies loved to get his attention by repeating daggie-daggie-daggie, it was very sweet. We had the opportunity to meet his birthmother (wow, more on that later) and she told us that she named him Dagem simply becasue she just really liked the name. William is my first name and is the name we will call him (I really like "Lil' Will" but Karen prefers "William").

This was one of Karen's favorite pictures from our first day with him in Ethiopia. Both he and Karen really liked the hat. He is a precious little boy. Even though he was sick with a cold most of the time we were there, he was still very content and happy.

This is a picture from our first meeting with him on Monday, February 15. Karen has already learned that the way to his heart is through his stomach. He loves to eat! He will fit right into the Coffman family.

This is a picture from my first interaction with him. He is very attentive and loves to be held. His first words were "da-da-da-da." Of course, he said these words when he reached for me, Karen, the nanny, his favorite toy, and my bowl of soup at lunch. These are pictures from our first day with William. We are happy to share them with you. We look forward to you meeting him in person.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Family Reunion

We made it home. What an incredible ten days! I was unable to blog while in Ethiopia. However, I will be posting details of our trip as I find the time over the next couple of days. This picture was taken at the Blue Grass Airport in Lexington, KY on Monday evening about 9:00 PM. What a blessing! It took us a little over 2 years to make this picture a reality. 783 Days Later. It was worth every day.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

What Happens In Ethiopia, Stays In Ethiopia

I found this old picture the other day. It was from a mission trip to the Fiji Islands, one of my last excursions out of the country. I think we had a little too much cava that night. It is not often that you end up in a congo line with a bunch of guys. The funniest part of the picture is that my good friend, Gold Daniel, is leading the way. When I look at this picture it makes me think of the saying, "what happens here, stays here." That mindset is definitely not true for our trip to pick up William. We hope to be able to share all of it with you. Our story is just one page of a much larger story being written in Ethiopia. A story that many families before us began writing and that many families after us will continue writing. It is a story that does not need to stay in Ethiopia. It is a joy to share our one page of it with you.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

I Will Just Tell Him It's Chi's Fault


Chi Ekwenye is "the Mother Theresa of Nigeria." Those were the actual words of the Dean of the UGA School of Social Work. I met Chi while she was working on her PhD from the University of Georgia. After her graduation, she returned to Nigeria to launch Right Steps, a human rescue mission focused on providing relief services for orphaned children and homeless women. She manages a residential facility called Susana Homes that receives children from birth to teens, rescuing them from a situation of being orphaned, destitute, or some state of being homeless. There are more than 50 children that currently live at Susana Homes. Even though she considers all of them her children, Chi has personally adopted three of them: Yana Sue, Hana, and Bobby. This is a picture of her three.


During a recent visit to the states, Chi brought gifts for our children. She wanted our three children to be connected to her three children through their outfits.


Chi is one of those people who comes into your life and causes your life to never be the same again. God used Chi to turn my heart toward Africa. Most likely, if I had never met Chi, I would not be preparing to meet William. I thank God for Chi. I have recently thought about how I would answer William if he ever asked me a question about why we chose to adopt him from Africa. I know what my response will be. I will just tell him it's Chi's fault.

Here is a video from the Pepperdine Lectureships of Chi receiving recognition for her work in Nigeria.



A team from the Southside Church of Christ in Lexington, Kentucky will be traveling to Susana Homes in October 2010 to build a new boy's dorm. The construction of this two story concrete block building will cost approximately $55,000 US dollars. As of February 2010, we have raised approximately $35,000. If you would like to donate to this effort, you can make a check out to the Southside Church of Christ and write Project SHOD in the memo line. Send it to the Southside Church of Christ, Project SHOD, 1533 Nicholasville Road, Lexington, KY, 40503.

Monday, February 8, 2010

The Other Picture

It is an amazing thing to know your son only through two pictures. The first picture was taken after William was brought to the orphanage in September. This picture was taken around Christmas time. We have studied these pictures a lot, hoping to learn his ways and his thoughts and his personality from still photos. They say a picture is worth a thousand words. I am sure this picture is worth at least that many words, I just have no idea what they are right now.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

The Richt Family Adoption



Coach Mark Richt has impacted more than the football field at the University of Georgia. His simple faith in God and his commitment to his kids has been a model for me. ESPN did a great job of capturing the heart of the Richt family with this video testimony. We can't wait to go and "swoop up" William.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Picture Perfect

William Coffman
Born on May 31, 2009
Ethiopia, Africa

Precious Child of God
Chosen Second Son
Beloved Baby Brother